"If you look for someone then it won't happen, if you wait then someone special will come along". They were the wise words from just a couple of my closest friends. And it was true. Spent Valentines day with him went for a curry and for a few drinks after and finished the night off with the 'Notebook'. Was really nice, however the walk home with a headache from the wine wasen't pleasant. Really hope this works out, because he is my sort of person compared to others I've been with :) <3

"The Big Apple"

New York, also known as ‘The Big Apple’ excels in history, delicious food, indulges in entertainment and has its famous skyscrapers. With 48.7 million tourists a year, and counting, it’s easy to believe that this city never sleeps. It is understandable why so many people fly across the globe to visit this breathtaking city as there are so many things to occupy your time. The world-famous department stores Macy’s and Bloomingdales for the shopaholics, the ice rink for the more adventurous and the museums to soak up a bit of history, after a pleasant family boat ride across from Liberty Island. Not forgetting the New York Yankees basketball game.

‘The place to be’ of course is Times Square. The constant beeping of horns from the local drivers, a sea of yellow taxis and the fact that you’re now squeezed onto pavements which are bursting with people- you know you have reached ‘the square’. Your once big strides are now mini footsteps, enabling you to take in the smell of freshly made New York bagels and pastries as you walk. Your favourite British high street shops such as Topshop, Virgin Mega store and H&M, are there to greet you on every corner, oozing in size along with many others.

However, at night it all comes alive. Limos and Humvees will cruise along the compact roads with screaming girls hanging out of the windows. Neon lights will project onto your face and bounce off buildings, the music will be blaring, and the friendly locals persuading you to come into their karaoke bars. If singing on top of a table isn’t your thing, or if you’re wanting a more relaxed night, why not head to the cinema or theatre. One thing I do advise is to get there early as it’s usually heaving with people, as it’s a popular attraction with their 20 screens they have to offer. If not, then head to Planet Hollywood as it’s a family friendly restaurant with endless choices of food and is accompanied by all your favourite movie soundtracks and props.

Although Times Square can be extremely busy and can get quite irritable, the commotion makes it and you’re guaranteed a brilliant day and night out. It is a visually exciting place, with plenty to do and many photo opportunities. Therefore, why not share the experience with friends back home as Time Square is kitted out with webcams allowing you to share the fun through technology.

Why not take a short ferry ride across to Liberty Island to see the Statue of Liberty which was given to the city by the French 125 years ago. Then go onto Ellis Island to view the Immigration museum. Both islands come under the price of one ticket.

Due to the twin tower attacks, the statue is unavailable for the public to climb up, however for an unforgettable experience- not for the faint hearted, get a New York pass and get a helicopter ride. This drifts over the Hudson River, gives you an impressive view of the Statue of Liberty, the memorials of the WTC, Ellis Island and Central Park. With New York offering so much to their tourists, the best way to see it, is from the breathtaking views up above.

Away from all the taxi fumes and sirens, in its own contemplative space situates ground zero. With New York renown for its noise and ongoing entertainment, the memorial area for 9/11 is silent and sheds emotion. Filling the space where the Twin Towers proudly stood is the Tribute WTC Visitor centre. This offers the public, galleries which include photos taken at the time when America was under attack and the devastating wreckage which was left afterwards. It also puts the day into perspective, as people have written their own personal stories on what happened that day, as well as recorded interviews. There is also a gallery of personal belongings which were saved and parts from the wreckage.  

The museum’s base spreads across a whopping 8 acres meaning that it is very easy to miss things out due to its large scale. You’ll find the statue of ‘Lady Liberty’, a replica of the famous Statue of Liberty but a lot smaller. However, many people are unaware of its significance. This was lying in the aftermath and was then found positioned outside the fire station covered in notes from the public, uniform patches, flags, money and rosary beads. This was a way for people to pay their condolences to the fire fighters who had lost their lives.

When you arrive at ground zero, you can’t miss the two stunning waterfalls which run into an acre sized pool, with the sun reflecting off the water. Around them are all 3,000 names of the people who died, engraved on a bronze plaque, symbolising hope and renewal, glistening in the sunshine. Surrounding them are 400 planted trees and marble benches which were designed for people to reflect on that day back on September 11^th 2001. With the sound of trickling water and enough space to have your own marble bench, it makes it a nice peaceful location to get away from the hustle and bustle from the other sights.

There is an opportunity for a walking tour and I highly recommend it. Each group speaker has been personally affected and could be a survivor, a witness, someone who has lost a loved one, or a volunteer who helped clear up and dig for survivors. Not only do they have the knowledge of the memorial tributes, each story is unique and is told from first hand experience, something which newspapers have never been able to do.

If you’re interested in the guided tour, then you can reserve advance visitor passes on the 9/11 memorial online website, the tickets are free. The tour gives you an un-imaginable experience, which will set you off with goose bumps… remember to take the tissues.

Another tribute which isn’t located at ground zero is the ‘golden sphere’ which stands strong in Battery Park. This was originally situated in one of the twin towers. It was heavily damaged but remarkably managed to keep the majority of its shape, including parts of the plane which were buried inside of the sphere.

Walking along the streets with thousands of people passing you by and being in such close proximity, it makes you feel small. Yet, looking up at the skyscrapers which compete for the tallest in the world makes you feel tiny. So getting a chance to go up one of them, such as the Empire State building is a ‘must do’, as it allows you to gaze down on the beautiful city. It is available to the public day and night, and on the clearest of days you can see up to 80 miles away, taking in overpowering views. At night it competes with Times Square’s buildings with its florescent lights running up and down the upper deck, with a spotlight scanning the midnight sky. It gets around twenty thousand people visiting daily, so to avoid major queues print off a ticket online and take it with you (no extra cost).

The other NY iconic symbol, the Rockefeller, with it’s seventy floors, unique architecture, shopping malls, restaurants, Radio City’s music hall and plenty more to offer. The smell of freshly made food lingers in the street, as well as the locals, tempting you in to try their American cuisine. Yet if you don’t want to try something different, you have your standard TGI’S and McDonalds.

Similarly to the Empire State an unobstructed view is open to the public which allows you to look out over the Manhattan skyline, as well as the beautiful palm trees and flamboyant flowers which burst with life in the Rockefeller’s gardens below.

If you like Broadway shows, then Radio City music hall will certainly get you up and dancing with its musical acts. Also enjoy backstage access, a chance to meet your favourite stars, and a glass of bubbly; this makes for a great evening out. If this isn’t the kid’s scene then wrap up warm, have the first aid kit on hand, and go and enjoy the ice rink with 150 other skaters. After, grab a cup of tea from Starbucks as a reminder of home.

Since the hit TV series ‘Friends’ aired, Central Park has always been a popular attraction. With greenery, lakes and fountains, it makes the walks so much more enjoyable. The park also has a zoo and kids club which allows parents to leave their children there whilst they visit the near-by Metropolitan Museum of Art.  

Although the price of the whole visit can be quite expensive, you’re paying for an experience which is unique and like no other.

With top world class tourist attractions, delicious food, shopping, great bars, sport and breathtaking architecture makes a stay in New York City a memorable holiday. What more could you want? New York is also known as the City of Dreams and I for one will be dreaming of making a return trip as soon as I can.

All Grown Up

Sitting in the lounge whilst scanning through 'bloglovin' I heard the local school bus go through the village. The bus I used to wait for every morning at 7:50am to go to secondary school. When your at university you are absorbed into uni life and the surroundings which are there, but when you come home to visit, you forget the smallest of things. It sounds stupid but because Southampton has a population of 40,000 students or something silly in just one city, you forget that people are actually at school.

I cannot believe how fast my life is going. I would say this year, but were only 9 days into the new year. I have more memories engraved into my little brain of when I was younger, than I do of what I did yesterday. I'm half way through my degree with only a year and a half to go and I'm 21 next year. Last night my family and I were discussing what I wanted to do for it celebration wise. This scares me as I'm only 20 this year, but truth is, it's going to come round quicker than ever!

I was having a chat with my dad last night and he asked me where I would like to be in ten years time. My answer? I want to of had my first child. I would be 29 in ten years, ohmygod. That makes me feel so old. Before then, I want to travel, have a stable job and find someone to actually have a child with ha.

As years go on, new obstacles come our way, we get challenged, we succeed. New faces come in and out of our life, and we get a taste of what life has to offer every day, as every day is a different day.



(That's me on the left)

We used to text non-stop everyday,
We used to see each other nearly everyday,

We used to have regular phonecalls,

We used to always have day and nights out.

Now it seems a struggle to even have some of your time,

You are always making excuses,

Replacing me,
Forgetting that I was the only friend who has been there for you,

Now where am I?

HELLO I-PHONE ;)

After having a chat with my Auntie Eve about the prospects in life and what she did when she was younger in order to fulfil her career as a doctor, I decided to come home and write a 'life plan'.


So I think we've all seen the episode when Rachel from 'Friends' writes her life plan on her 30th birthday on when she needs to get married and have children. I'm not talking about that plan (however I should really get a move on).


Instead I jotted down all the things I want to do, googled it and saved the relevant information. These included: Volunteering work, work experience, applying for jobs, going to New York, travelling, raising money for charity and American Summer Camp. So I know your probably thinking wow that's going to cost a lot, she's pretty ambitious. I worked all that out too. Although it's easier said than done, I'm hoping to just get any job even if its working in Tesco's full time for a year so it can provide me with the funds to put towards my savings to do these things.


I feel by having this list, it will motivate me and will also point me in some sort of direction. I can either add to it, or take things off. I went straight from A levels to university when some did a gap year, however my travelling and what I want to do will be afterwards once I've graduated. You don't get these experiences and opportunities when your in a full time, committed job or if you've begun a family.


It really has made me excited about what I have to come :)

Christmas Time

So I haven't blogged in a month and a half and one of my 'to do tasks' over the Christmas holidays was to blog more. Well that hasn't entirely been the case, in fact I've had nearly a month off and am now returning to university and haven't written anything. I've spent time reading them, but haven't concentrated on my own.


When coming home the visits are always very short and seem to speed by on purpose. Yet, having a substantial amount of time off over the festive period its just been so nice. I love Christmas as it's so family-orientated, I get to see all my closest friends, and just get to relax. As well as forgetting about the previous term of hellish (is that even a word?) work.


I had a lovely Christmas, got nearly everything I asked for including a colouring book, yes that's right not even ashamed ;) My New Year was enjoyable too, I had no hangover the next day, but was completely shattered as a result of partying too hard.


I set myself New Year's resolutions, however mine are more to keep continuing the things in which I'm doing at the moment. I feel it shouldn't take a new year to motivate you to do something or change something. If you want to do it, then you should.


1. Blog more


2. Make sure I take my makeup off every night and moisturise thoroughly (always roll in drunk and wake up looking like Amy Winehouse)


3. Have a hair regime. I love my hair, its thick and very long and people always say they're very envious of it, but I never use heat protecting spray and dye it constantly. I need to get into the habit of protecting it more and using more moisturiser.